Personality Based Sikh Matrimonial Service For UK Single Sikhs 

Helping Single Sikhs Find Their Life Partner Without The Superficial Left/Right Swipe

(a community service project)

Did you know about 55% of communication is body language?

So how can you truly understand a person’s personality from only an image?

It’ doesn’t make sense right?

With 38% being tonality and only 7% words, it’s not enough to gauge and understand a person of interest online from an image alone.

No one goes into business without getting to know potential partners. It’s the same when it comes to marriage. It’s only through communication can you start to understand the other.  Face to face communication leads to understanding values and creates moments of connection. That’s why we believe it’s a far better way to find a potential partner than just swiping left or right on some mobile device.

According to the Statistic Brain Research Institute, 1 in 5 relationships and a little more than 1 in 6 marriages begin online. As a statistic that is very low and shows that online dating alone is not enough and considering those as statics based on mainstream dating apps hence for the Sikh community these numbers would be non-existent.

Therefore we would like to take every opportunity available to us to bring Sikhs Together and You can help us do this. Live events are best, you get to meet and greet, make connections and funnily enough even make friends and you never know who knows who in the network when that spark may fire off for you. Plus everyone at the events is there for a specific reason, no time wasters but individuals who are seriously looking for marriage and starting that next chapter in life.

Only action leads to results. Therefore we invite you to not only attend live events but help us create awareness and share this page with others who are in a similar situation as you. You never know what good karma you may gain for doing this good deed. They say that which you want in life do it for others and it comes back to you. Hence helping others find their other half means the universe will reward you in return too.

What is a Vichola?

A Vichola traditionally is a mediator between two families planning a marriage. It's an age old tradition of match making based around family requirements for a potential partner.  

Fast forward to the 2020s and things have changed where the vichola has become the events, the website and the apps. However swiping left or right just does not work. One would think with todays technology it shouldn't be so hard but it is and many individual struggle to find the one.

If you are a Vichola, register and become part of the Sikh Vichola Network

Sikh Vichola is a Sikh Marriage Bureau for UK Based Single Sikhs

What is a Sikh Vichola All About?

If you are a Single Sikh Register your profile and get on our database.

This is an exclusive opportunity for serious individuals to understand oneself better and to help you create clarity around your future partner.

We help you by matching you not only on your preference but personality type too. We request all our users take a DISC assessment. DISC is the leading personality assessment tool, used by over 40 million people. It promotes increased communication skills for individuals. So not only can it help you understand your self better but it can also be used to help you connect with your potential partner.

We'll also update you of up coming events were you can meet like minded individuals, network and potentially meet your future partner.

Why has the one not turned up yet?

Have you ever wondered why you haven't found the right partner yet? It could be due to the overwhelming number of choices available, or the constant distractions caused by social media and societal influences. These factors often lead to subconscious behaviors and attitudes that we may not even be aware of, causing us to overlook what truly matters in a relationship and focusing on superficial and influenced perceptions.

Take a moment to reflect on what you genuinely desire in a potential partner. The Hollywood/Bollywood notion of the perfect knight in shining armour or damsel in distress is often an unrealistic and one-sided fantasy driven by consumerism.

Interestingly, if you talk to new couples, they often share a common experience. When they became clear about their values and what they truly wanted in a partner, they eventually met someone who matched their vision. Don't just take my word for it; ask a new couple about their mindset and self-awareness during their search, and you might be surprised by what they have to share.

You're a Sikh, so inherently you have Sikh Values

As a Sikh, you inherently embody Sikh values that unite us, regardless of our individual beliefs and practices. These fundamental values, such as honesty, compassion, generosity, humility, integrity, service, and spirituality, form the core of our shared identity.

Sikhs are known for being a casteless community, meant to stand out and be proud of their uniqueness. Embrace this distinction and celebrate it. Whether it's about the appearance, like an untrimmed beard or a different turban style, or personal circumstances, such as living with parents, these should not hinder our pride or judgment. Caste should never be a factor in our interactions with one another.

Let go of the idea of finding a partner who perfectly matches every item on your checklist; such expectations can lead to a fantasy that is often unattainable. Instead, adopt an open mind and be willing to collaborate and grow together as equals. Gurbani emphasizes the unity of two souls becoming one to bring out the best in each other. The true essence of a partner lies in harmony and mutual growth, as we learn from and support each other to become complete.

So, as a Sikh seeking a partner, let Sikh values be your guiding light, embrace diversity within the community, and approach relationships with an open heart and mind for a meaningful and fulfilling journey together.

Are You Ready To Find Your Match?